Ramadan is known by Muslims as the month of patience for many reasons. Fasting, as difficult as it may be, is one of the best ways to build patience as one exercises self-control and restraint from every day temptations.
Kindness is another important virtue that everyone should practice in their lives, but in Ramadan, people are encouraged to maximize their good deeds, and show kindness and forgiveness towards others. As we become more aware of our internal struggles and emotions, it is easier to become more compassionate in the way we treat the people around us.
Takeaway tips: Think of Ramadan as a patience training program. The first few days or week will likely be challenging, so try to identify when you are tempted to lose your patience and adjust accordingly. Start out with a simple “Ramadan Kareem” or an offer to help someone in need. Small acts of kindness go a long way and chances are, you will feel better with yourself afterwards.
Charity and giving
Unlike setting a New Year’s Resolution, which is very often self-centered and temporary in nature, the teachings of Ramadan encourage altruism; selflessness and giving to the less fortunate. During this time, an uptick in donations is usually observed possibly because charitable contribution, or zakat, one of the five pillars of Islam, is mandatory for every Muslim at the end of the month. Zakat typically accounts for 2.5 percent of a person’s total savings from the past year.
A recent survey revealed that 66 percent of residents in the UAE and Saudi Arabia say they expect to donate more to charity this year compared to previous years, as they spend more time social distancing indoors. The survey found that non-Muslim expats living in the above-mentioned countries say they feel inspired by the values of giving and charity, with many actually participating in charitable events or donations.
There are plenty of charitable organizations in the UAE where you can donate or lend your time to. At the same time, businesses can use this opportunity to scale up CSR efforts and help people in need.
Takeaway tips: Think of simple ways you can give back to your community. It may not necessarily be with money or food. Perhaps you can volunteer your time towards a good cause.
Finally, be intentional and make a list of specific steps that you can take to become more discipline, compassionate and generous. The objective is to not only become better over the next 30 days, but to also continue on your journey of self-improvement long after the holy month is over. Ramadan Kareem.